In my opinion, this optimism that characterizes Pollyanna, it is indeed an exaggerated one. But, as we take the events in fairy tales as such, overlooking the fact that they are fantastic / exaggerated, and focusing on the final teaching, I think we should look at the "Glad Game" in an overall way. Of course it has its good parts and its parts that are less good, but it can be a guide for those much too negative. Thoughts are very powerful.
I think Pollyanna, through her game, teaches us that we can train our thoughts to be positive and hopeful or we can just allow them to be negative. This very simple game changed the attitudes and lives of many people in Beldingsville. As for example, we have the conversation of Pollyanna with the minister, which I really like: "Well, that's what father used to call 'em," she laughed. "Of course the Bible didn't name 'em that. But it's all those that begin 'Be glad in the Lord,' or 'Rejoice greatly,' or 'Shout for joy,' and all that, you know—such a lot of 'em. Once, when father felt specially bad, he counted 'em. There were eight hundred of 'em." "Eight hundred!" "Yes—that told you to rejoice and be glad, you know; that's why father named 'em the 'rejoicing texts.'" "Oh!" There was an odd look on the minister's face. His eyes had fallen to the words on the top paper in his hands—"But woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!" "And so your father—liked those 'rejoicing texts,'" he murmured. "Oh, yes," nodded Pollyanna, emphatically. "He said he felt better right away, that first day he thought to count 'em. He said if God took the trouble to tell us eight hundred times to be glad and rejoice, He must want us to do it—SOME. And father felt ashamed that he hadn't done it more. After that, they got to be such a comfort to him, you know, when things went wrong; when the Ladies' Aiders got to fight—I mean, when they DIDN'T AGREE about something," corrected Pollyanna, hastily. "Why, it was those texts, too, father said, that made HIM think of the game—he began with ME on the crutches—but he said 'twas the rejoicing texts that started him on it."
Another quote that I like, and which is representative: "What men and women need is encouragement. Their natural resisting powers should be strengthened, not weakened.... Instead of always harping on a man's faults, tell him of his virtues. Try to pull him out of his rut of bad habits. Hold up to him his better self, his REAL self that can dare and do and win out!... The influence of a beautiful, helpful, hopeful character is contagious, and may revolutionize a whole town.... People radiate what is in their minds and in their hearts. If a man feels kindly and obliging, his neighbors will feel that way, too, before long. But if he scolds and scowls and criticizes—his neighbors will return scowl for scowl, and add interest!... When you look for the bad, expecting it, you will get it. When you know you will find the good—you will get that....
Nowadays, negativity and depression seem to be more normal and more common. These thoughts and moods severely limit a person's ability to enjoy his or her life. So, I think we could learn a little bit from Pollyanna.
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